Many of us 'old folks' have been crucificition for some comment or question on this forcum...shoot just for being alive! Welcome to the club. Any relationship you run the risk of disagreements, fights, getting your feelings hurt, your heart broken. It is part of the human experinece. You can either; lick your wounds, heal, grow and learn, or go live in a cave somewhere.

I will leave you with this. When I was a little girl and my grandmother was teaching me to quilt, I stopped her every five or ten minutes with questions. Finally she told me this story. There was once a man who passed a capillar, watching it struggle to get set free from its coccon. The man decided to be merciful and help the creature out by taking his jack knive and cutting it free. What crawled out shocked the man! The creature was half butterfly, half capillar. It crawls a second, then died. If the man had left the creature alone, a beautiful butterfly would have burst forth and added to the world's beauty. Instead, he killed the butterfly, with his help. With that, my grandmother handed me the sewing needle and walked away. I am now a Tapestry in great demand.
Sometimes, the best thing someone can do for you is a allow you to struggle for the answers you seek.

P.S and yes, this is an event in VV1 ;\)


Edited by MochaJew (05/07/08 02:56 PM)
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Life is hard. So put on your big girl panties and deal with it.