A while back I wrote to LadyCFII about everything mentioned here and more. And I let her know that I was deeply saddened that I could not find the information I wanted because I had to get through so many replies that weren't relevent. I expressed my fear that it would get worse with VV3 coming out. And it may seem extreme, I know, but I really was considering leaving the forum until long after VV3 had quieted down.

HOWEVER, it gives me warm fuzzies just to be able to share how I felt. And now that I have said it, and realize that I'm not alone, I don't feel so much like leaving. Though a little courtesy shouldn't be too much to ask, I recognize that I need to be as forgiving as I am patient for VV3 (which I am).

I have to remember, I want to make a good impression too.