Thanks Complexity! The farming and the research I understand, since everyone can max out on those. So the other two are building and parenting. Do you put all of your male villagers on building or parenting to max them out on the third skill?

With all the villagers involved do they all max out on building part since all they're doing is fixing up stuff or do you put the majority as parents and just watch the children multiply?

With the women it's not hard to max them out on parenting. I play the game like Arnie in that respect. None of the men are on parenting and one or very few of the women, especially at first. So I'm getting a little confused on how you max the men out.