I'm sorry that you think it's best to leave Tara, but I sincerely hope the forums don't change. It's so nice to have a "home" to come to where everyone's nice and nobody takes offense because I'm having a bad day.
99.9% of the people here are respectful, kind and interested in everyone. They took me in even though I'm 50 years old.

Sometimes, I think it's how people write that determines the answers people make or don't make. Sometimes when I think I've been hilarious, others don't comment. The key is not taking offense because certainly none is meant. Just keep on making posts and it will all be fine.
