Oh, thanks for making this clear. I just felt I had to mention it, because this is when all this interest in the young girl started, and I still don't understand all of this "alpha" talk. Isn't "alpha" males/females something monkeys have, and not people? LOOOOL!

Actually, even people have alpha males and/or females. Depending on the culture, it's usually the male, however, in some societies, it's the female (as in the head of house).
My own family tends to have alpha females. If a man tries to say we should do something, we usually just look at him and laugh, or say, "That was cute", and go on our merry way. We are a very strong alpha female family. Has been since at least my great grandmother.