In this moment of recession, what do you give up?

Posted by: CarlaAdministrator

In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/22/08 11:02 PM

In this moment of recession, what are you giving up mostly?
Posted by: williamani

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/22/08 11:13 PM

I'd vote for other, these are things I really like. Example, a math book(I love math).

EDIT: Oops, I accidently did'nt vote on Books and Magazines, Did'nt see that one. My fault
Posted by: tkdgrl223

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/23/08 01:22 AM

Well I don't have a car or will be needing one soon. We're aren't going out much but we still go to movies.
Posted by: Krystal

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/23/08 01:47 AM

I checked:
Travel/vacation (no big trips here... though that is a little hard to avoid in this area)
New car (in all hopes)
Technology (even though I want that new iPod Nano... :P)
Dining out
Video games (yeh yeh, I know....)
Other (so vague it just might work!)
Posted by: bethlham

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/23/08 02:13 AM

I checked everything except local driving and magazines!! Sadly, my list could be much longer...all shopping in general, expensive coffee, hobbies, recreation, few name brand meds...on and on. Most perks like car washes and dry cleaning is out...that all done by me.

Yuck, what a depressing poll! \:D \:D \:D
Posted by: Miss Monkey Girl

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/23/08 03:20 AM

I checked...

Travel/Vacation
Dining Out
Clothing
Movies
Other

\:\(
Posted by: knksmiles

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/23/08 06:01 AM

I had to check them all. We have no extra money since we now spend about $600 a month just for gas to get my husband to work. When we moved into our house 6 yrs ago, it was just around $120 dollars.

But what hurts the most is the video games (of course!) I am saving my nickels and dimes to get VV3 and hope I get it before the new game comes!
Posted by: CaszaGirl16138

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/23/08 10:54 AM

The phone new clothes, nail polish, makeup... I cannot wait til this recession is over!!!
Posted by: Gamemastr1

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/23/08 04:14 PM

With these hard times, it has been especially difficult here. My wife's job was Real Estate related and when that took a dive, so did her wage. It was cut in 1/2.
My families favorite past time was to go out to dinner. If I didn't want to cook, "Hey! Let's go out!" I cannot remember when or where our last dining out experiences was. I had to cancel my Big Fish Game Club. Cannot afford $7 a month. Most everything I buy at the grocery store is on club card. "Woohoo! Mac&Cheese for a buck a piece!" I haven't even been able to keep up on regular oil changes. \:8 I also couldn't tell you when the last time I washed my truck. I hate washing vehicles because I wind up getting so detailed, it takes me all day. I used to take it to a car wash but that hasn't happened in several, several months. Also here in SoCal, we have water restrictions. No watering your yard, washing cars, no outside water what-so-ever from 9am to 4pm. My busy times are from 6-9am and 1:30 till after sundown. Thankfully there was one day a week or so where it rained for a few hours. I got out there and wiped the truck down, in the rain. I said "HA! You cannot fine me for using Mother Natures water! \:\/ "
Posted by: halidog

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/23/08 05:35 PM

Thank goodness my dad's a mechanic...
We had to give up some BIG vacations because of money (I really wanted to go to Australia, but my parents can't afford it now), and other, like a private school.
Posted by: SpecialPrincess

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/24/08 03:52 AM

Oddly enough, we don't seem to have given up anything. \:\? If we have, I don't know about it. I'm not the one paying the bills. :P
Posted by: Rockmower

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/24/08 06:49 PM

Like our friend Gamey, I was already restricting things due to lack of a j o b. We are more fortunate than many, in that we do have a pension to sustain us.

Still, the recession (whether the politicians want to call it that or not) has made things even tighter. We have started combining trips, and only go to town when it's necessary. I parked the big riding mower, and am now using the little push mower. Actually, that's had a rather strange effect on my pants. THEY seem to be growing for some reason

We used to dine out about once a week, now we do so about once a month. We haven't been to a movie recently because it just costs too much. We are trying to figure out a way to reinstate that, because it was our "monthly date" ever since we've been together.

Probably the B I G G E S T change I've made regards our winter heat. We have decided to do away with our big propane furnace, and I am working on putting in an outdoor wood burning furnace. I better hurry up though, because it's starting to get cold here at night. \:8
Posted by: blue_koka

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/24/08 07:19 PM

Actually we haven"t had to give up much. When you have little to start with you don't miss so much. We do live comfortable. We are not poor. But when you have so little you learn when and where and how to be frugal.
We rent movies rather than go out.
We limit our games. We limit where we go.
I have problems with people who have so much and live like Kings knowing there are people in our country homeless and hungry. I watch these T.V. programs where the rich spend thousands of dollars on parties and things they usually only use once or twice. Cars they only polish. And frolic while they see someone eating out of a garbage can.
I do hope that all of you here on this website help those that are less fortunate. Because before this country gets better,It will get worse. And those that have might tomorrow have not.
I care about people. And I hope and pray that everyone comes out of this problem not to worse for wear.
Posted by: Meems

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/24/08 09:26 PM

I checked off most of the boxes listed except local driving. Since moving from a tiny town 10 yrs ago to a somewhat larger city most of our needs can be found within a 10 mile radius. It even boasts a one screen movie theater with a two dollar afternoon matinee!
As executive director (haha) of a very large family, many money saving protocols were devised and implemented by me throughout the years.These were rigorously and rigidly adhered to. Personal monetary requests were usually answered by a brusque "No, we can't afford it!". Now this cold and brutal external armor was erected to hide a miserable and sorrowful interior as once again I had to deny and dim a childs' small and hopeful wish. This was back in the 1980's. By 1987 I had to leave my kids to essentially raise and monitor themselves so I could join my husband in the workforce. This lasted for 17 years well after that aweful recession. But the memories still linger and they are harsh.
And here we are again in the midsts of another and far crueller national crisis. Some personal observations:
On the up side gas prices are at record lows.
More people are selling excess luxury possessions at a fraction of their cost in their yard sales, on-line and in newspapers.
There are many more fresh produce stands in vacant shop parking lots and their prices are very reasonable.
Most of todays' fashionable outfits are so gruesome (and short) I wouldn't dress my dog in them much less pay their exorbitant prices to partially drape my body.
Families are rediscovering and reforging closer bonds while gathered around the manditory at home evening meal.
Survival is a matter of perspective and positive thinking and yes, some self denial and self sacrifice. If today you must give up or put off a wanted but not needed acquisition that doesn't mean forever. The job you lost to corporate downsizing just means exploring other options outside your mental box. Any job trumps no job even if it's delivering pizzas.
In summation to my impulsive essay I simply want to say that what goes around, comes around. Night always follows day. Rain always follows drought. Todays recession is tomorrows golden opportunity.
The end.
Posted by: Tmac

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/25/08 02:18 PM

I checked everything ! \:8
My husabnd was in the carpenters union for 14 years and he was
never laid off. But Guess what happened 4 months ago???
It has been very scary, and to top it off my mother moved
in with us because she has cancer and has to go through
8-10 rounds of chemo then surgery and radiation. She can't work she has been way to sick. Talk about being strapped !!!!!
My hubby did just get a job, making half of what he used to
make and it is by his family about 70-80 miles away. And to top that off we can't sell out house because, NO one is buying anything. So until we could sell our house my hubby is staying at his dad's for part fo the week and them coming home. Well that is my sob story !! I just thank God that i have my job!
Posted by: Annthewhofan

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/26/08 07:41 PM

I voted other as most of the things listed I don't do, for ie I don't own a car as I never leant to drive and only ride my bike to work.
I never buy magazines only the TV Choice thats 38p,

I never dine out as I don't trust resterants after seeing a tv docomentery on them.

I don't buy video games in a shop, but I will still buy the games from LDW, the only site I can trust.

I never buy Ipods and only buy stuff I need for my computer if some hardwork breaks down, like my mouse did I had to replace a few weeks ago.

I never been to the pictures for years I wait until the film comes on TV.

The only thing I keep buying is the latest Stephen King books or any Dr who novals on offer.

I might go on holiday when I am 60 and get a pension and my works pay. That would be next year and depending go on holiday 2010, The last holiday I had was in 2002 when my mom was alive I want to benidorm in spain.

I only buy clothes when I need them and shoes, when they are on the way out. I'm a great saver.
Posted by: HarryFan17

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/26/08 11:19 PM

Because of this, my family hasn't been able to go on a vacation because of gas prices. We were planning a trip to Italy during the summer, but now I don't know if we'll be able to. So my family has cut back on trips, driving unless necessary, books, going to and buying movies, and going out to eat.
Posted by: Houjun

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/30/08 05:29 AM

Honestly, my family hasn't cut back on too much really.

In almost 24 years, my family have never traveled (minus school trips) so that doesn't apply to us. Neither my mom or I have licenses so we pay 25 bucks a month for an unlimited bus pass so local driving isn't an issue, nor is a new car (though I was planning on getting a license soon so that may be pushed back quite a bit). I don't go to movies and rarely rent or purchase them so that doesn't apply either, same with the video games. Clothing is a non-issue since the majority of the clothes are in good condition and can be worn to work. Take-out is an event every other week so there's no problem there either.

So the only thing that should have taken a hit would be the books/magazines area but now being eligible for a 33% discount on books and a 10% discount on magazines, I've been able to save money there even while buying the same amount. \:\?

We've tried to cut out non-essential food items like a bunch of sweets and non-essential, non-planned purchases at other stores but that hasn't happened too well either. We're trying to cut back on the electricity but the bill still seems to soar anyhow.
Posted by: halidog

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 10/30/08 11:55 AM

For the energy bill, have you considered solar energy? You can sell some excess energy to the electric company, so your bill goes down.
Posted by: cattales

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 02/04/09 05:48 PM

I've always been frugal, always lived on shoe-string, by choice! (I'm much more interested in having a lot of free time to spend as I choose, than in having a lot of stuff) So this so-called economic crisis has affected me not at all. Nothing to "give up" 'cause I really have nothing to begin with. Though I may need to spend a little more time in the coming year working for money, so less on the volunteer stuff. But before I give up my volunteer work, I'll go back to living in a tent!
Posted by: virtualruler

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 02/11/09 10:41 AM

i voted for dining out cause frendlys is awesome. movies because movies are the best things these days
Posted by: VVFanatic

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 02/14/09 04:54 AM

Well for a while it was a major cutting back no going out and we cut back on the food we didnt need. trips we have actually gone on more trips now than before and mostly all the technology and stuff i just save up money for a long time and the movies there is a 50 cent movie theatre close by so we ususlly go to that.......
Posted by: Smilez10

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 06/28/09 05:03 AM

I cook more often instead of dining out. I rent movies instead of going to the movie theater.
Posted by: gambitgarrison

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 09/28/09 04:07 PM

Everything on the list except 'local driving' (have to get the kids to and from school and go grocery shopping) and 'video games' ($4 a month on a certain game portal isn't a bad price at all).
Posted by: VF_Life

Re: In this moment of recession, what do you give up? - 12/23/14 01:34 AM

Oh no I picked Video Games but I can't take it back by VIdeo Games I meant like Wii and DS, oh no, I love Virtual Families.