Simsane, yes I am playing more than one family as a way to learn more about the game. I visit the "minor" families and focus play time on my "major" family; the Happy bunch.

I don't think that pausing the game should affect their ability to make a baby. As in VF 1 some couples have difficulty with this. It varies from couple to couple. In this version there is the option to pay for adoption services.

Sometimes potential parents are just not in the mood. Check their stats bars to see how full or low these are.

Yes, collectibles are doubled here by the same trick used in Virtual Villager games. In this game I have learned that this can also work with adults.

Miss Kathy, thank you for clarifying the stuffed toys randomly including a game board.